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What Documents to Keep, and What to Shred

February 18, 2013 · by Tiffany Merritt · 14 Comments

As I have mentioned before, Tim and I have moved 8 times in the almost 11 years that we have been married. Each time we move, it seems that we have stacks and stacks of papers to go through and make decisions on: are these important enough to pack up and move, or can they be discarded now? And if they can be discarded, how do I know what to shred?

how long to keep important documents

Moving time is always a great time to review your papers and see if you can cull them a bit, but even if you aren’t moving, we’re fast approaching the “spring cleaning” time of year, and I want to encourage you to make this your year to tackle your paper demons. You can do it! Here’s my pile that I’ll be sorting through this spring (and hopefully getting rid of 50% or more!):

pile of papers to be shredded

If you often find yourself unsure of the things you should keep, here’s a basic list:

Tax Returns

Keep your annual tax returns for…well…forever. That’s the bad news for those of you who want a paper-free lifestyle.

But here’s the good news related to taxes…you can get rid of all the supporting documentation for your taxes after just 3 years (something I just learned and am SO excited to know)! That’s how long the IRS has to state that they would like to audit you.  If that makes you a little nervous, it is true that the IRS can audit you after up to 7 years if they suspect that your income has been under-reported by 25% or more. And they can audit you at any point in time if you have committed fraud or just never filed your taxes. I’m assuming that you haven’t done any of those things when I state the 3 year rule, here. 😉

Property Purchase/Lease Documents

If you have purchased a house, you need to hold on to all the paperwork related to the purchase and keep it in a safe place. If you have rented a place, most definitely hang on to your rental agreement. We once moved into a place and had the landlord call us to tell us that our very first month of rent was late. Thankfully he was a very nice man. But I was also able to pull out our rental agreement to show him the address I sent the payment to…turns out it was an outdated address. He apologized for that oversight, and we got everything straightened out. So you never know when you might have to refer to it!

Medical Documents

It is a good idea to keep any medical records that you have for yourself or family members.

Certain Certificates

Birth certificates, death certificates, marriage certificates and social security cards should all be kept in a safe place, such as a fire-proof safe.

Now for the fun part: What to Shred!

Bills

You definitely need to cross check your bank statements and credit card bills with your own records of expenses (oh how many times I have found problematic charges on my credit card….such a shame). But after you have checked through everything and paid your bill, you can shred ’em!

I do think there is something to be said for being able to estimate your monthly utility bills. I am able to do this by looking at our budget that we keep in a fancy excel spreadsheet and where we record our expenses every month. If you are moving to a new place or trying to sell your current one, that’s a good thing to know about your residence. So if you don’t keep your own records, perhaps you should hold on to your utility bills for a year to get a sense for how expensive your home is to maintain throughout the year. But no more than 1 year, people!

Receipts

If the receipts aren’t for anything that you will be returning or that you will be claiming on your taxes, then set them free!

Papers from School

I think it is a great idea to keep a few pieces of art from your children, but there is really no need to keep every single thing that crosses your threshold. I can tell you as an adult that I’m not interested in having a huge box of school papers from my elementary school years. A very small box will do just fine, thank you very much! If you have a tough time letting go of some of the things out of guilt, I encourage you to snap a photo of the pieces. That way you have them forever! Tim and I recently took pictures of some clay art that he did as a child, and that his mother so lovingly saved for him. I really enjoyed getting to see them, and so did Tim. But after a few weeks he realized that he had no desire to actually keep them. So we snapped photos, and let them go.

Now, obviously, clay creations and other works of art don’t need to go into the shredder. But if you have paperwork about your children that includes any sensitive information (address, phone number, social security number) then those need to be shredded. Children are victims of identity theft, too!

I hope this gives you a good idea of where to get started if you are hoping to move with less paper clutter this year, or to just get your current home to be a bit more organized and less junked up with paper!  Get to it!

A word of caution: PLEASE do not skip past the shredding part of this exercise. It is possible that nobody will go through your garbage, and find your personal information and commit identity theft. But it is also possible that they will. After all, identity theft is a lucrative business, and well worth taking a peak through your trash for many people. If you have a garbage bag full of shredded documents, would-be thieves will have nothing to search for, and that’s a very good thing.

 


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Time to Win a LifeLock Membership!!

December 24, 2012 · by Tiffany Merritt · 67 Comments

Just in time for Christmas, lovely readers, I have a very special giveaway for you!

I’ve been singing the praises of LifeLock (the most amazing identity theft protection service there is, in my opinion!) since September and have been DYING to give you all a chance to win a membership.

Well what do you know? It’s a Christmas miracle!!! And it’s a great way to start of the new year right!

Win it!: One lucky Stuff Parents Need winner will receive a LifeLock membership!

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Be sure to enter my other current giveaways, found on the sidebar of my page.

I am a compensated ambassador for LifeLock.  All thoughts and opinions expressed here are strictly my own.

Filed Under: Giveaways · Tagged: giveaway, identity theft, identity theft prevention, identity theft protection, life lock, life lock reviews, lifelock, lifelock for life, lifelock review, prevent identity theft, review, victim of identity theft

Travel Tips You May Be Forgetting (And a Chance to Win a $4,500 Travel Voucher!)

December 22, 2012 · by Tiffany Merritt · 1 Comment

Are any of my readers getting geared up for a road trip this weekend to see family and friends? I bet many of you are!

First and foremost, I want to wish you safe travels. Please don’t forget to get your air pressure checked and make sure you have anti-freeze in your car if you are traveling in cold areas. Don’t try to race the clock and make a personal best in the time it takes you to get from point A to point B.

And if you are traveling with kids, bring snacks. Lots of snacks. Squeeze pouches are my personal favorite for the littles. And for myself, plenty of iced coffee and mint chocolates. Yum!

You are probably already mindful of all of these types of safety tips, but you may not be thinking about the safety of your identity while you travel. Travelers are prime targets, so be mindful, please! A few weeks ago my aunt was traveling in Kentucky, and on the second day of her travels there, she got a call from her credit card company about some suspicious charges. Someone in Kentucky was trying to purchase a $700 airplane ticket. She was able to trace her credit card use back to McDonald’s, where she suspects an employee may have somehow gotten her information, perhaps through the system there. She had to cease using her card on the spot. Fortunately, she had alternate methods of paying for things she needed, but what if she didn’t? What a mess that would have been!

It’s also possible that someone in line used their cell phone to snap a photo of her card. Did you know that this happens ALL. THE. TIME?????

One of my biggest tips for you for the security of your identity, whether you are close to home or on the road, is to NEVER have your credit card out of your wallet while you are waiting to pay. I see people all the time laying their cards on the counter while they wait. All of your information is just sitting there, exposed, and you never know who is watching and either has a photographic memory or can snap a photo without you noticing.

If you think you will be spending a fair amount of money while you are away from home, it is also a good idea to contact your credit card company and advise them of where you will be spending money (geographic location, not specific stores). If they know you will be in California, for example, they won’t flag a charge there as suspicious, but if one pops up in Florida while you are away, they will know you aren’t there!

This month, LifeLock’s goal is to give you great tips for traveling over the holidays that will help keep you safe. Please check out their LifeLock for Life sweepstakes happening right now. Four winners will get LifeLock memberships for two (!) and one lucky duck is going to get a $4,500 travel voucher. Wowzers!!! And really, everyone is a winner who plays because you are going to learn some really helpful information to keep your identity safe, potentially saving you a whole lot of headache!

I have also learned some great tips over the last few months simply by following LifeLock on Twitter. I definitely recommend putting them on your follow list!

I’d love to hear any tips you have for folks traveling this holiday season, be it related to identity protection or anything else! Comments here are going to be worth an extra entry for something awesome that I’ll be posting in two days, just FYI!!!

I am a compensated ambassador for LifeLock.  All thoughts and opinions expressed here are strictly my own.

Filed Under: Featured, Parenting Tips · Tagged: id theft prevention, id theft protection, identity protection, life lock, lifelock, lifelock protection, lifelock review, theft protection, travel safety tips, travel tips

Twitter Party with LifeLock Celebrating the New Movie Waiting for Lightning (12/13 at 1:30pm EST)

December 11, 2012 · by Tiffany Merritt · Leave a Comment

LifeLock is having a Twitter party this Thursday at 10:30am PST, 13:0pm EST. And when LifeLock throws a Twitter party, they really do it right!!! There will be fun prizes and lots of great info about the upcoming movie Waiting for Lightning, which tells the story of extreme skateboarder Danny Way. There will be a signed skateboard up for grabs as one of the prizes, which would make an AMAZING gift for any extreme sport fan on your holiday shopping list!

RSVP here! http://bit.ly/DannyWayParty

Additionally, the LifeLock Facebook page has a contest going on that you can enter daily for a trip to 2 to LA to win a private screening of the film with Danny Way!

Here’s a trailer of the film if you haven’t yet heard about it:

So get yourself signed up for the Twitter party AND sign up for the sweepstakes. Someone is going to win big…shouldn’t it be you???

 

I am a compensated ambassador for LifeLock.  All thoughts and opinions expressed here are strictly my own.

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Black Friday LifeLock Twitter Party: Prizes Include $400 Best Buy Gift Card!

November 18, 2012 · by Tiffany Merritt · Leave a Comment

LifeLock knows that many MANY of you are getting really excited about all the great deals that will be available on Black Friday. If you are going to be out early in the day and will be home resting your weary feet (and your tired credit cards!) in the afternoon, then you need to join the LifeLock Black Friday Twitter party, which will be happening that day at 6pm EST (3pm PST). It will be a great opportunity to learn some really important tips about keeping your identity safe throughout your shopping frenzy and beyond.

And there will be prizes. Lots of prizes. Including a $400 gift card to Best Buy!

Want to attend? Of course you do!

You don’t even have to leave this page to get signed up, either. Here’s the form to RSVP right here. You have to RSVP to be eligible for the prizes, so be sure to do it! If you can’t see the entire form at once, just scroll down on it (I checked to make sure you can do that!). If it gives you any grief, just to go to the RSVP page.  Ok, enough talking from me…I’ve got to get myself signed up, too! See you there!

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My Holiday Shopping Strategy and My Best Tips for Keeping Your Credit Card Info Safe

November 14, 2012 · by Tiffany Merritt · Leave a Comment

You may have already heard me mention on Twitter and Facebook that I have 25 people on my Christmas shopping list. I have a lot of siblings, in-laws, and a TON of nieces (and one sweet little nephew, too!). I have a 6 page list where I keep track of the gifts I have purchased, as I shop all year long so that I can afford to get fun and interesting gifts for everyone.

My goal every year is to be completely finished with my shopping by Thanksgiving.

I rarely meet this goal.

But I almost NEVER subject myself to Black Friday. I don’t think it is fun at all. I think it is stressful and a little bit sad, as it just seems to be a day of grabbing as much stuff as you can before someone else grabs it. No thanks.

But Cyber Monday? Now that’s a different story! I think I like it because I can’t see with my own eyes how many other people are shopping, and somehow that makes it easier to accept. Also, my work day starts around 4am, and if I can get some shopping done in the wee small hours of the morning, that’s ideal for me! No need to get out of my yoga pants!

Oh who am I kidding; I still wear my yoga pants when I go to the store…

Whether you are hitting the stores for those tempting holiday deals or just going online to get what you need (or both, which is what most Americans are doing now), you will likely be making use of your credit and/or debit cards. They are so convenient and in the short run feel much safer than cash, but each shopping experience you have with them is also another opportunity for identity theft.

Sorry to be a joy kill, but as you know I’ve been a victim MANY times, and a few of those times happened around the holidays, when I was using my credit card quite liberally.

I have a few tips to help you stay safe this holiday season. These are tips and tricks I have picked up over the years and I hope they help you.

Shopping in a store

1. DO NOT get your credit card out of your wallet until it is time to pay. Many people have it out and on the counter or in their hands while they wait for the total bill. In this day and age, security cameras and cell phones can easily get a picture of your credit card numbers and the name on the card. I know that sounds crazy, but it is true. Don’t get would-be picture takers the chance!

Shopping online

1. If you are like me you do price comparisons online before making a purchase. Sometimes a lesser known store might have a better deal than some of the online giants like Amazon. I’ve seen it! BUT….if the best deal is coming from a store or site you’ve never heard of, please take an extra moment to do a web search on the company and see if there are any complaints out there. You need to make sure that you are shopping with a reputable retailer before handing over your credit card information. Checking out the store with the Better Business Bureau is also a good idea and it only takes a few seconds. This strategy has kept me from handing over my credit card information to businesses that turned out to be shady on more than one occasion.

2. Keep your internet security software up to date to help you catch anything fishy (or should I say phishy?).

Holiday donations

1. I never make donations to organizations over the phone, because I don’t know if the person who is calling me really is from the organization in question, or if they are just claiming to be from the organization. Unfortunately this is a popular way to get people to hand over their credit card info, along with their addresses. Instead of donating this way, go directly to the organization you support online and donate through their site.

I hope my tips will help you play it safe this holiday season! For more helpful hints and tips (and for chances to win GREAT prizes, like a $1,000 Visa card!) remember to play the LifeLock for Life game online. It’s one of my favorite weekly games to play as it teaches me something new every time!

Do you have any tips for keeping your personal information safe while shopping and making donations this holiday season?

I am a compensated ambassador for LifeLock.  All thoughts and opinions expressed here are strictly my own.

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LifeLock Membership Giveaway (Actually, SEVENTEEN Giveaways!!!)

October 8, 2012 · by Tiffany Merritt · 4 Comments

Last month I confessed to you that I have been a victim of identity theft 5 times in the last 8 years (I feel sick to my stomach just writing that down!). LifeLock is an unbelievably amazing identity theft protection service that is helping me keep my private information on lock down so that I don’t add any more instances to my record.

I am absolutely delighted with the service that I am being provided as a LifeLock member, and I’m also getting a very good education on the things I need to do differently to keep my identity out of the hands of anyone who would abuse it.

Knowing how rampant the problem of identity theft is, I want you, my readers, to have the same peace of mind that I now have. I want you to become LifeLock members! And right now LifeLock is working hard to get the word out about their amazing services. They currently have 17 different giveaways for LifeLock membership services happening on different blogs. That’s 17 chances that you have to win some peace of mind, and this is happening at such a great time, because if you are like me, you are probably going to be getting out your credit card a bit more often over the next 3 months as all the holidays approach!

So here’s the list of all the places where you can enter to win a LifeLock membership, worth $110!!! Good luck, everyone! If you win one, let me know!!!

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http://www.themommy-files.com/2012/09/protect-your-identity-and-future-with-lifelock-giveaway/

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http://www.theartofrandomwillynillyness.com/2012/10/lifelock-helps-you-protect-your.html

http://www.livingsmartgirl.com/2012/10/protect-your-identity-with-lifelock/

http://mamabee.net/identity-theft-protection-with-lifelock-membership-giveaway/

http://www.miscfinds4u.com/blog/2012/10/07/lifelock-reviews/

http://www.crazyaboutmybaybah.com/protect-identity-theft-lifelock-giveaway/

 

 

I am a compensated ambassador for this brand.  All thoughts and opinions expressed here are strictly my own. 

Filed Under: Featured, General · Tagged: giveaway, identity theft, identity theft prevention, identity theft protection, life lock, life lock reviews, lifelock, lifelock for life, lifelock review, prevent identity theft, review, victim of identity theft

LifeLock Ambassador and a Chance to Win BIG ($1,000)!

September 13, 2012 · by Tiffany Merritt · 3 Comments

Identify theft: I’m guessing this does not rank very high on the list of things you enjoy contemplating. If you are lucky enough to have not (yet) been a victim, then this may not seem like anything you need to spend your time worrying about. Your accounts seem secure with all their promised encryption. You aren’t in the habit of losing your purse or wallet. So what’s the worry?

The threat is so real, you guys. SO. REAL.

Hello, my name is Tiffany, and in the last 8 years I have been the victim of identify theft 5 DIFFERENT TIMES. FIVE!!!!!!

I’m delighted to be a new brand ambassador for LifeLock, a company that works RELENTLESSLY to help help provide identity theft protection to its members. You may be chuckling to yourself and thinking that I’m quite possibly the world’s worst choice for a partnership with LifeLock. But I think the fact that I seem to be a magnet for identity theft makes me the perfect ambassador. Every time I become a victim, I pick up a new practice that is supposed to greatly help reduce the chance that I’ll become a victim again. And every time, it proves to be insufficient.

I clearly need more vigilant and comprehensive protection. And if I need it, I’m guessing millions of other people just like me need it, too. I am really looking forward to sharing my experience as a LifeLock Ultimate member with you. And I’m REALLY looking forward to not having to cancel my credit card and fill out a bunch of paperwork about how I didn’t spend $600 at a Payless in Kansas (yeah, that happened…).

But for now, I want to tell you about a chance that you all have to win BIG with LifeLock!

Introducing the LifeLock for Life Sweepstakes on Facebook! This super fun sweepstakes just started on Tuesday, and it is going to run throughout 2013 so that you have MANY chances to win cool prizes. Every week you can go to the LifeLock Facebook page and answer 10 multiple choice questions that are all about helping to protect your identity (so you can learn something while you try to win!). Prizes are awarded weekly as well as monthly. The specific life events that LifeLock will focus its questions on will change every month. For September, it’s all about heading back to school!

And the prizes….they are AWESOME! This month LifeLock is giving away 4 Ultimate Memberships (ARV $275 each!) and one $1,000 Visa gift card! EEEEE!!!! That would cover Christmas at my house!

So head on over and “like” LifeLock on Facebook, visit the LifeLock for Life tab, and enter to win! I just played, and I learned a lot of things I didn’t know in just a few minutes!

 Disclosure: I am a compensated ambassador for this brand. All opinions (and unfortunately, all instances of identity theft) are my own. 

Filed Under: Giveaways · Tagged: giveaway, identity theft, identity theft prevention, identity theft protection, life lock, life lock reviews, lifelock, lifelock for life, lifelock review, prevent identity theft, review, victim of identity theft

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