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Strategy Games as Teaching Tools for Understanding Other Perspectives

September 15, 2017 · by Tiffany Merritt · 1 Comment

Recently I was watching my two girls engaged in a board game we were recently sent to review called Crozzit. It’s a very fun game with a simple objective: build an uninterrupted road from one end of the board to the other. The first player to do so wins. Sounds easy enough, right? But like other strategy games for 2 players, like chess or checkers, it can be surprisingly hard to meet your objective!

crozzit board game

And perhaps more importantly, what I have noticed as my girls process each game they play together after the winner has been declared, is that this game is helping them to better understand the perspective of others.

You see, you don’t have to be thinking 5 or 6 moves ahead in order to be successful, but you do need to think 1-2 moves ahead, and that includes being able to think about what your opponent is most likely to do in response to your move. Of course being able to do this helps with your ability to improve your own strategy, and therefore, to win more games. But there’s a bigger lesson here, and that’s one of learning to look at something from a perspective other than your own. Being able to consider the impact a decision you make will have on others PRIOR to making that decision is a pretty amazing capability, and one that I would love for my children to develop. I never really thought about a board game being one of the ways in which this could be developed, but as I watched them play, I realized that’s exactly what was happening.

Maybe today’s a great day for 2 person board game with you and one of your children? You can model this behavior by doing your strategic thinking out loud, and by encouraging them to give it a try, too!

 

Filed Under: General, Parenting ·

Special Birthday Messages on Demand: That’s The Power of Netflix!

September 15, 2017 · by Tiffany Merritt · Leave a Comment

I’m a Netflix Stream Team member, and receive complimentary streaming services. All thoughts and opinions are strictly my own.

Did you know that September 16th is the most popular day to be born? Yes, it’s true! The odds are really good that you know someone with the world’s most common birthday. Heck, maybe it’s YOUR birthday!

netflix birthday songs

Netflix has once again gone all out with some great content, just in time for the busiest birthday month of the year. If you are like me, then you are perpetually behind in life in one way or another, and birthdays, while fun, can also add to that stress. Birthday celebrations are getting a bit out of control (can we all just agree to CHILL OUT a bit on them?!). So it’s great to have a really easy way to make your child feel extra special on his/her birthday, thanks to Netflix. Check out Birthdays On-Demand, which has 15 featurettes starring familiar faces from your kids’ favorite shows (My Little Pony and Ninjago, just to name a few!).
netflix happy birthday

I hope this helps you make celebrations for loved ones that much more special! Happy birthday from Netflix!

Filed Under: Parenting ·

How to Teach Kids Good Money Habits: A Year-By-Year Guide

September 12, 2017 · by Tiffany Merritt · Leave a Comment

Thanks to PSECU for sponsoring today’s content, and for providing such valuable resources to parents. 

Occasionally I find some parenting advice that is so spot-on, and that is put together in such a helpful, that I just print it off and put it somewhere I can easily reference it (on my fridge, on my wall, in my planner, etc.). Today I’ve got one of those SUPER helpful guides for you, so get ready to pin this infographic, and just go ahead and print it, too! 🙂

PSECU, a not-for-profit Pennsylvania credit union, has an awesome guide for how to teach your children good money habits, as well as excellent resources (such as books and apps) to help reinforce what you are teaching. Good money habits can begin as early as age 3, and are important to continue practicing all the way until 21, by which time you will helped your child learn how to be really smart with money! This infographic will give you very specific ideas for how to promote financial literacy, age-by-age. We are about to start some goal setting with our kids, thanks to the recommendations below!

how to teach children financial literacy

PSECU can only offer credit union membership to Pennsylvania residents, but their free financial education is for everyone!

Filed Under: Parenting ·

The New Meal Kit Service for the Budget-Conscious: Introducing Dinnerly

September 10, 2017 · by Tiffany Merritt · Leave a Comment

I’ve tried several different meal kit services over the past 2 year years. They all promise to make putting a meal together so much easier for you, and overall, they do deliver on that promise. All of the ingredients you need to put together 2-3 meals shows up on your doorstep, and all you need to do is follow the directions provided to get dinner on the table. No need to plan a menu or shop for the groceries.

HOWEVER…there are 2 main problems that I’ve encountered with these meal kits. First, sometimes in an effort to provide their clientele with impressive dishes, these companies opt for unnecessarily complicated prep. For example, I do not want to make my own pesto, even if the fresh ingredients will yield a more intense flavor, when it’s already 5:30 and my kids are staring at me with growling tummies.

The other main problem is that the cost is just not sustainable. When a meal costs around $10/serving, as the dishes in these meal kits tend to, I might as well just go to a place like Panera for dinner. I won’t spend much more, and I won’t have to do any cooking or cleaning up.

But there’s a new game in town, a meal kit service called Dinnerly. This company seems to have focused its energy on solving those 2 key problems that busy parents like me seem to have with the other meal kit services. So they offer 30 minute or less meals that come in around $5/serving. That’s undercutting their competition by 50%!

Our family got to try out a box from the very first weekly offering of the company in Tennessee. I was impressed with the quick delivery to my door (2 days) and in particular, how freezing cold my meat was (I have received meat from another company…TWICE…that I was VERY nervous was too warm to still be safe, so great packaging and quick delivery is essential for meal kits).

dinnerly subscription

We had enough food to prepare 3 meals for 4 people in this kit, and those meals were as follows:

  • Grilled Onion Turkey Burgers with Pepper Jack & Sweet Potato Fries (our favorite!)
  • Grass-Fed American Chop Suey (made way too much food for us, and surprisingly, the kids didn’t like it)
  • Harissa-Spiced Chicken with Potatoes, Onions and Spinach (I could take or leave the spinach in the dish, but overall, great flavors)
The food wasn’t the best I’ve had in my entire life, but it fell right in line with the types of things we like to cook on weeknights, and the ingredients were in line with what we like to buy (I noticed grass-fed beef, as well as organic canned tomatoes). I enjoyed it and would order it again before going back to the the other kit services I have personally tried.
  dinnerly subscription 2
So how does this company offer a similar service as other meal kit services at half the cost? I have a few theories on places where costs are cut. First, you have to go online to get your recipes instead of getting them delivered on pretty card stock in your kit. For me, that’s no big deal, though I wish they had an app to make it easier to pull up the recipes on your phone, since the phone or tablet is easier to take into the kitchen with me than the laptop. I also think that they aim to make simpler recipes, which might mean fewer ingredients or even less exotic ingredients, and that helps keep costs down a little bit more.
So when it’s all said and done, it’s not restaurant quality food, but it is classic weeknight fare, and it did make life less hectic the week we had the box, because I didn’t have to make a trip to the store, pull together a menu, or do anything complicated with meal prep. Dinnerly is most definitely worth a try!

Filed Under: The Kitchen ·

5 Reasons Why Chores Are Considered “Part of the Curriculum” Here

September 7, 2017 · by Tiffany Merritt · Leave a Comment

Special thanks to today’s blog post partner, Force of Nature. As always, all thoughts and opinions are completely my own. 

Over the past month I’ve been charting a course, of sorts, for our upcoming journey into homeschooling. I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about what I really hope for my kids to learn this year, and then I’ve planned our school days accordingly, giving regular attention to all matters that I consider of critical importance. It’s tough to prioritize since I have roughly half a million ideas of things to do, but I’m making sure that each and every day we are doing math, doing reading, and doing chores.

Say what? Chores??? Yes, indeed! I think teaching my children how to take care of themselves and their surroundings is just as important as the traditional subjects we will also be learning. And so, making beds, sweeping, washing dishes, weeding the garden and sorting laundry are going to take up a portion of the school day. I believe that by giving daily time to these tasks, 5 skills and traits will be developed.

chores as part of the school day

  1. Independence

A good friend once told me that parenting is just one giant exercise in letting go. Part of that letting go means teaching our kids not only how to fly out of the nest, but how to keep their own nests in good working order. I want my girls to leave for college knowing how to keep a tidy home, how to take care of their belongings and how to solve the problem of hunger by means other than take out.

2. Teamwork

Some jobs are just too big for one person, or perhaps they are just more fun to tackle with someone else. Darah and Layah will get to figure that out as they work on tasks together. They will also come to understand how big of a difference it makes if everyone pitches in. Many hands make light work, as the saying goes!

3. Stewardship

My family has been using eco-friendly household products for almost 10 years, now. We are going to do some lessons this year on how pollutants get in our air and our water, and the role that household products can play in harming the environment, as well as the benefits of removing those chemicals from our home. I want this to be a lifelong commitment for our kids. One of the products we are currently really enjoying is from the company Force of Nature. It uses completely non-toxic products that clean effectively while doing no harm to us or the earth. I find their cleaner to be highly effective on granite, stainless steel, wood and porcelain, and more importantly, on big messes as well as small ones. There’s no need to use harsh chemicals when non-toxic products, when combined correctly, can do the trick!

4. Chemistry and Math

force of nature cleaner

Because the Force of Nature cleaning system requires the user to do some pretty cool stuff when mixing up a bottle of the solution, there’s a built-in chemistry lesson for us each and every time we need to refill our bottles. Once you pour the solution into a container you have already filled with water, you hook it up to the source of electricity (so cool!) and turn it on, and that’s when some serious chemistry goes down! This is a great way to learn that by combining electricity with the mixture of salt, water and vinegar in the solution, you get electrolyzed water, which is a very powerful disinfectant and deodorizer. For more on the science behind this product, click here.  I want my children to understand how their cleaning products works, and to feel comfortable making their own solutions, not based on guesswork, but rather, on science! We will also work on some math as we break down the cost per bottle of making our own cleaner vs. purchasing something pre-made. I believe the last eco-friendly all-purpose cleaner I purchased was around $7/bottle. The price is much closer to .75/bottle for Force of Nature. 🙂

5. Gratitude

Raising children is a labor of love, and it’s also quite expensive, financially. By taking care of our home, and therefore taking better care of our things, I hope to further instill a sense of gratitude for the things mom and dad work really hard to provide, as well as for all of the time we spend maintaining a home that is comfortable. It takes a lot of effort, and that can be hard to appreciate if you never have to contribute much. My kids are going to give back to the family, and in so doing, feel more grateful for what they have been given.

So on any given school day at The House of M this year, you will find my kids learning by doing, and that includes helping to take care of their home.

Are your children expected to do chores on a daily basis? I’d love to hear any tips you might have for other parents who want to start taking advantage of this important learning opportunity, so leave a comment below! 

 

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5 Ways I Use Cars.Com As Someone Not Looking to Buy or Sell a Vehicle

September 1, 2017 · by Tiffany Merritt · Leave a Comment

Thanks to Cars.com for making today’s post possible. As always, all thoughts and opinions are my own. 

I remember using Cars.com to help us gather information on vehicle makes and models the last time we were shopping for a new (to us) car, which was back in 2010. We are the type of people who buy quality vehicles and drive them for as long as possible before replacing them, and Cars.com actually helps us to be able to do that. The website is known for it’s detailed and helpful vehicle reviews, which are extremely useful when making a purchase or determining the worth of the car you are selling, but there’s an entire section of the website you may not know about that is designed for the folks who have no plans to buy or sell anytime soon. Here are the 5 places I like to go on the website to help keep my (paid for!) car running just fine.

car care tips

  1. Find a Service Center

It’s a good idea to read reviews of service centers before you use them, especially if you have some larger repairs looming. I love that Cars.com has an extensive list of service centers near you, along with reviews from customers listed. What a great resource!

2. Service and Repair Advice

Cars.com is loaded with bite-size articles from car care experts on a wide variety of topics that will help you better understand how to take good care of your vehicle so that it will last longer if you plan to own for the long haul, or that will help with its value at the point of sale/trade in. I have learned a lot about car care from these articles and I very highly recommend them.

3. DIY Repair

Want to learn how to change a tire or the oil in your car? Look no further than this page on Cars.com for videos and tutorials on these and other really helpful topics (I just learned how to change my windshield wiper blades!).

4. Safety & Recall Notices

It’s always smart to do a quick check twice a year to ensure that your vehicle hasn’t had any sort of a recall. Cars.com makes it very easy to check, and tells you what to do if your vehicle does have a recall notice on it.

5. Car Reviews

I’m not looking for a new vehicle, but I can tell other people about the vehicle I own by filling out a review. Right now Cars.com is having a really fun promotion: one vehicle review per month is going to be randomly selected to win $300! So take a few minutes to add to the great crowd-sourcing of opinions on the make and model that you currently own. Somebody’s going to win $300 this month, and why shouldn’t it be you???

You don’t need to be in the market to buy or sell a vehicle for Cars.com to be a very useful resource. Take a moment to poke around and learn a few things about how to make the car you own and love go the distance for you and your family!

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Parental Controls on Netflix: How to Enable Them!

August 24, 2017 · by Tiffany Merritt · 1 Comment

I am a Netflix Stream Team member and as such, receive complimentary streaming service. As always, all thoughts and opinions are my own. 

One of the things I absolutely love about Netflix is the amount of original content they have to offer. These shows tend to push right past the boundaries the cable networks need to adhere to, and that can make for programming that has a much more “real” vibe. For example, I’m currently watching The Ranch, which volleys back and forth between being a sitcom and a drama. It gives me a lot to chew on with every episode and I’m so glad I get to tune in to it.

My kids, on the other hand, don’t need to be watching The Ranch due to the language content (there are fairly frequent f bombs in the script, among other things). My oldest is 8, and she is going through a phase where she is very interested in what the grown ups are talking about and watching, so she will often ask to watch whatever I’m watching. This has made me realize that I may need to take some extra precautions to ensure that she doesn’t check out some of mom and dad’s shows during her personal Netflix watching time.

Fortunately, Netflix has a built in parental control feature that I just learned about and wanted to share with you all. It’s simple and effective and brings me a lot of peace of mind.

netflix parental controls

Head over to your account section, and to your settings. Click on the Parental Controls link, and this will pop up:

parental controls edited 1

What you are doing here is setting the unrestricted level. I chose to let anything up to the PG rating be completely unrestricted. If something is TV-14 and up, though, any user on the account will have to put in the 4 digit pin that has been set. So even if I’m logged into my Netflix account as Tiffany, if I want to watch The Ranch (or similar), here’s what happens:

parental controls edited 2

It takes 1 second to enter my pin, so it’s absolutely no big deal to me. And it keeps little ones from accidentally (or purposely) watching content that isn’t appropriate for their age. I really appreciate this simple parental control feature! If you have kiddos who get unsupervised Netflix screen time, I highly recommend setting this up to ensure that they are watching appropriate content.

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Physical Education for Homeschool: Lower Elementary Grades

August 17, 2017 · by Tiffany Merritt · Leave a Comment

This week I’ve been getting up early each morning to work on plans for homeschooling, which will begin for the first time for our family in just under a month. One area I’ve been giving some thought to is physical education and what I can do to make sure my girls are exercising their bodies and not just their minds.

I’ve made an initial list of what we will be doing for physical education, and of course this list is subject to change after we get into the swing of things and determine what is and isn’t working about the schedule I’ve created (veteran homeschooling parents keep telling me to expect to have to make adjustments so I’m trying to stay flexible!).

p.e. ideas for homeschool

  1. Swimming

The current plan is to take the girls to our nearest public indoor swimming pool once a week for some fun and a really great all over body workout. I plan to squeeze a few laps in while we are there, too! It will cost $4 total per visit, putting this activity cost at $16/month. I’m not thrilled about the cost, but it’s much cheaper than the $75/month YMCA membership we used to pay, and we pretty much only used the pool.

2. Backyard Games

outdoor games for homeschool p.e.

I’ve got a selection of games that the girls can choose from for daily outdoor time (at least 30 minutes). I have a frisbee, a jump rope, bikes and scooters, and a few really fun games recently sent our way from Toysmith. In particular, my girls already love Bashminton (similar to badminton, but no need to put up a net) and Spring Ring (great fun for keeping a squishy ball in the air, and it can be used in the backyard or in the pool). I also have a kids’ croquet set and I’ll be encouraging the kids to select something from the toy chest, in addition to simply having them chase each other around!

physical education for homeschool

3. Yoga

We are going to be practicing yoga either 3 times a week, or if it proves as beneficial as I suspect it will, every morning. I’ll have some kid-friendly yoga routines you can find for free on YouTube, and we also really love using the Yoga Pretzels cards, because then the kids can simply draw a card with a particular move, and we spend some time working on that move together.

4. Dance

This one is already on the back burner for a semester, due to heeding advice from other homeschooling parents to avoid the temptation to over schedule. I’m already seeing just how easy it will be to have them signed up for too many things, so we are backing off of this commitment for now. But if I find that the interest persists, and if I feel that physical education needs additional attention, then we’ll sign back up for dance. I’ve proposed karate and soccer to my girls to see if I could get them interested in either, but so far, no luck.

If you homeschool and have some thoughts on what helps your kids stay active, I’d love to hear about it in the comments! I’m appreciative of any and all advice! 

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Gender Reveal Parties: Gift-Giving Occasions? My Thoughts and Top Tips

August 16, 2017 · by Tiffany Merritt · 1 Comment

August is my birthday month, and I’m in plenty of good company, as summer and early fall are the busiest months of the year for maternity wards. Therefore, the odds are decent that you might be getting invited to a baby shower in the next month or two.

And based on recent trends, you might also be getting invited to a gender reveal party. Are you familiar with this concept? It’s an event where the parents learn if their baby is a boy or a girl, and they usually learn in a festive and fun way in front of all of the guests (by slicing a cake and the inside color is telling, or opening a box that has pink or blue balloons inside, etc.). These types of parties weren’t a thing even in 2012 when I was last pregnant, but now they are a fairly common occurrence.

And yet, they are a bit of a head-scratcher to attendees because the jury is out over whether or not gifts need to be brought to a gender reveal party. I’ve actually never attended an event, but my understanding is that it’s not at all expected. If you are invited to a gender reveal party, then the couple simply wants to share an important moment of their lives with you.

With that said, though, the only time it’s considered rude to bring a gift to a gathering is when your invitation explicitly asks you not to do so. Otherwise, it’s always a very nice gesture! Here are a few perfect gift ideas for a gender reveal party (and a few to avoid). I hope they help you when your invitation arrives, because if you haven’t been to one yet, you will within the next few years!

what to bring to a gender reveal party

 

Gifts to Avoid

Gender neutral stuff. If parents are having a gender reveal party, it’s a safe bet that they are interested in having their nursery filled with items in colors other than yellow and green. Take a pass on these items and keep reading if you aren’t sure what else to get when you don’t yet know the baby’s gender.

Newborn onesies. You may also be tempted to buy some white newborn onesies. These are not a good idea at a gender reveal party OR at a baby shower because babies outgrow them SO quickly (and some babies are born large enough to never even wear size newborn). Between consignment sales and hand me downs from family and friends, there is a 90% chance that the couple has more than plenty when it comes to newborn and even 0-3 month clothing, so just skip it.

Gifts to Bring

pampers on sale

Diapers and Wipes. It makes no difference if the baby is a boy or a girl; either way, the parents are going to need some diapers and wipes! Any parent will appreciate having a head start on diapers and you will love getting such a great deal on them. I found a killer price for a bundle of wipes and these diapers are currently 25% off with subscribe & save.

Good Advice. Since gender reveal parties don’t mandate gifts, you could certainly offer a different type of gift to the couple: helpful advice that has served you well as a parent. This could mean that you gift them your favorite parenting book (Parenting with Love and Logic is my pick!), or share your secret to reducing meal planning stress (eMeals is what I use), or just give some pro tips for making future trips to the store with kids less difficult (such of the importance of stocking up on diapers and wipes in advance!). For example, at Sam’s Club you can opt for free shipping on lots of items, including those Pampers or Luvs diapers and wipes that will be needed. No need to head off to the store at all!

scan and go app sams club

If you forget to order in advance, you can opt for Club Pickup, which means your items will be waiting for you once you arrive at the club. Or if you are the kind who liked to go inside and shop, use the Sam’s Club Scan & Go app to scan the bar codes of the items you want while you shop, pay for your purchase through your phone, and completely skip the checkout line. I used it while shopping with my girls yesterday and LOVED it, especially because they were bickering with each other the entire time we were shopping. Mama needed to wrap up that trip fast! 🙂

kids at sams club

They had to spend the last 7 minutes of store visit in silence. Stinkers!

Gift-Giving Etiquette One final thing to keep in mind is that since it is unlikely that every attendee will be bringing a gift, be sure to exercise some subtlety in your gift presentation. Options include waiting until the end of the party to bring in your gift from the car, or slipping the gift into a side room. If you’ve ever been to a party where someone brings a gift and that someone isn’t you, then you know how bad it feels to wonder if you made a faux pas! Be a good party guest and avoid passing on that feeling, if at all possible.

Have you ever been to a gender reveal party? Any other great ideas for useful gifts for the new parents? I’d love to hear!

 

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